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B · Talk · intermediate · Week 2 · Chapter 4 of 8

The disagreement conversation

Share facts and impact. Ask for their view. Find interests under positions. End with decision or next experiment.

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Script practice

“When X happened, impact was Y. How did you see it?”

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Role-play once with a peer OR write both sides of the dialogue.

Pro tip: If emotions spike, name it and pause — don’t push through fog.

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Chapter learning outcomes
  • Interest vs position
  • Reflective listening
  • Close cleanly

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