Manuals / Emotional Intelligence / Chapter 7
C · Pressure · advanced · Week 3 · Chapter 7 of 8
EQ in incidents & conflict
Incidents amplify emotion. Roles, facts, next actions beat blame. Park interpersonal repair until the fire is contained — then repair.
Incident language
Replace “who broke it” with “what do we know / what next.”
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Rewrite 3 blamey lines into useful incident updates.
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Chapter learning outcomes
- Incident tone
- Blame vs systems
- After-action repair
Clear these before you leave